Narcissist's Playbook

  Chapter 3: Control Entry 2: Rewards Ultimately, when you’re looking to get control over someone you want to induce in them a subconscious understanding or desire to receive your approval or something from you that you can provide them. The goal is to make them emotionally dependent on you by inducing in them a desire to get your approval and or to get you to give them something they desperately need. This will keep them at your beckon call waiting for the next thing they can do for you. Rewards will ultimately need to be used at some point to keep your target interested. The target can only sustain perpetual damage and emotional abuse for so long before they start to crack and take action or collapse. You don’t want them to crack because if they crack they will become very dependent on you. They will be an emotional wreck and will find themselves in a state of learned helplessness, sounding like a blubbering baby that for helping to put them together and you’ll have to make a c...

Chapter 2:Self Esteem Entry 2: Fault In order to get control over your target you must use a good supply of focused gaslighting. The focused gaslighting will be directed at making sure that they feel as though they are the ones that are at fault. You have to relentlessly put the ideas into their mind that they are defective. They have to internalize this and they have to believe it. One effective method of getting that control over them is to make them think that they are a narcissist. A narcissist is something that is pretty universally agreed to as a bad person. Not many people look at the disorder from the clinical perspective so if you can make them doubt themselves and think that they are the narcissist then it’ll further break down their identity, their self esteem, and their sense of self. Only, you can’t get them to internalize this from telling them per se unless you can find a lot of outside sources that will tell them in discreet and subtle ways. What you need to do is to ge...

Chapter 3: Control Entry 1: Loss Aversion One of the most effective means of controlling someone is to find out what they value that they have and then frame their behaviors in such a way as to state that if they do this behavior then they’ll lose what they have. So, if they were about to leave you then it might be a good time to start dropping the odd fact as to what they will lose by leaving. So, if you have control over the finances, or you own the property, you’ve been paying for their drugs, whatever the things that they need or depend on - you make them aware of the impending loss should they go. If they see a big consequence to them leaving then it will make them reconsider doing so. There are two loss types you can use Loss of something that they already have. This one is difficult because people start taking for granted what they have so it will take something pretty significant for it to really register the loss in such a way that it will make them stay, so use this only when...

  Chapter 2: Self Esteem Entry 1: Talents To get control of your target you’ll also need to destroy their self esteem. By doing so you’ll accomplish a couple of different important defenses which will make them more open to being controlled. First, you’ll lower their own idea of what they are worth so they undervalue what they bring to the table and this will open the door for you to have them over value what you do. So, its important that you erode this in subtle ways that they cannot point directly to you having said anything at all to them or if they try to bring it up you can turn it on them and say that they are attacking you. Target their skills and ability and tell them that it’s never good enough. There is always a problem that you pick out and point out some flaw in what they are doing. This will start to plant the seeds that they are not actually all that talented and it will start to erode their desire to do these things which is critical to inducing dependence on you...

Chapter 1: Erosion of Identity  Entry 2: Sexuality To continue to erode your targets identity you will want to target their sexuality. The more in-flux and unstable their identity is the more control you’ll get over them and the more influenceable they are. If you can take a heterosexual man or woman and then start introducing ideas of them having sex with the same sex as them then you can utilize various strategies to open their mind to the idea. The key is persistence over a long period of time and to do it as subtle as possible. First you must make them receptive of the idea. You do this by invading their subconscious. So, if you have control over the medium that this person visits the most or have control over some aspect of information that comes to them then you’’ll want to stack the deck so to speak in various ways in order to start winning the battle of the subconscious. One method that works is utilizing the same methodology as manifesting, or visualizing a future that you...

Chapter 1-1: Erosion of Identity Morality The best way to get to an empath is to find out their weaknesses. For this you must probe them and observe them taking note of all of the things that get under their skin and all of the things that they love. The goal is to categorize all of these things and to make a list of each of them which becomes your list of things to attack. The goal is to take that empath and erase who they are and fuse their identity with your own. In doing so you’ll get total emotional control over the person and they’ll dance to your tune like a puppet. Steps to eroding a person’s identity: Find out what they like and what they stand on for moral pillars and start chipping away at those things until their identity is in total flux. If they are about tolerance and equality then you create situations which will erode that tolerance and equality and turn them into a racist discriminator. This is easily done. All you have to do is set up a group of people that are repre...