Narcissists Tool: Jealousy and Envy

Jealousy and Envy

The narcissist likes to hit you where they hurt the most.   This is in their envy and jealousy problem.    They know how it makes them feel when they feel envious and it eats them up inside so much that they absolutely love to put you into a situation where you are triggered with jealousy and envy.

As such, one of their favorite tricks that they like to do is to use triangulation in such a way as to create a person that they are 'interested in' to purposefully make a love triangle with the goal of making you jealous so that you run after them and cater to them and put up with all of their abusive bullshit.

They want to make themselves seem like they are in major demand so that way you feel like you are never good enough.  They love this because it keeps you trying harder and harder to keep them happy and it keeps you giving them gifts and services in a way that you might not have done without that constant pressure of triangulation.

One of the first things they like to do is try to establish things so that they are not interested in you.  They will point out some flaw of yours or state that they are not interested in you because you are not their type and this is to purposefully set up the third person that they have a massive 'crush' on which if you dig into it far enough you might even find that this person doesn't exist or if it is an online person it is them that is running the account.

The entire point of it is to get control on your emotions so that way they can manipulate you.    This triangulation is a sign that they are playing a game with your heart to get control over you.  They don't value you as a person, they only value you for what you can do for them and it becomes obvious when they are willing to play these types of games and destroy any chance that they had with you all so that away they could feel that sadistic glee when they trigger jealousy in you and scold you for it.

Time to pack up the cats and get the hell out of there.

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